Late Marriage

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By Trsmd

The advantage of delaying marriage and child-bearing, ideally, is to get established financially. Another advantage is to allow time for personal growth without the responsibility of a relationship.

There is freedom to participate in social events without the need of searching for a babysitter. Delaying marriage and child bearing also affords one the luxury of resting at will without the responsibility of waking up before rest is complete.

Usually, people with such a plan commit to a healthy lifestyle taking into consideration the course of nature and the demand on time to care for a family. There are physically fit 60something-year-olds who can run rings around people in their 30s.

Some Opinion

No matter what the age is we all need someone to be with and count on them. Age has nothing to do with love. People get married again in their 70's.  Getting married later in life will most likely assure that you will be married for life.

Having children later in life is a blessing. You are more mature, financially secure, have more time and patience.  

Late marriages are from those who claim to not want to marry or those who get remarried. Early success could cause late marriage. It effects is enormous, but I belief one of the major ones is unsuccessful relationship in most cases.  

Benefits of Late Marriage is Greater happiness and Less children, more nookie.  

when a person becomes 40 he sees that life is worthless if they don't have anybody to share it with. 

 It is a union of two hearts and people who are commited and want to spend the rest of their life together. I don't think any age is too old to find someone to love and do that with.

 

Late Marriage - Joke

Sharma, age 92, and Asha, age 89, are excited about their decision to get married. They go for a stroll to discuss the wedding and on the way they pass a chemist.

Sharma suggests they go in.Sharma addresses the man behind the counter: "Are you the owner?"

 The pharmacist answers "Yes". 

Sharma: "We're about to get married. Do you sell heart medication?" 

Pharmacist: "Of course we do." 

Sharma: "How about medicine for circulation?"

 Pharmacist: "All kinds." 

Sharma: "Medicine for rheumatism, scoliosis?"

 Pharmacist: "Definitely." 

Sharma:" Medicine for memory problems, arthritis, jaundices?"

 Pharmacist: "Yes, a large variety..... the works!" 

Sharma: "What about vitamins, sleeping pills, antidotes for Parkinson's Disease?" 

Pharmacist: "Absolutely."

 Sharma:" You sell wheelchairs and walkers?" 

Pharmacist: "All speeds and sizes.Why do you ask? Is there something I can help you with?"

 Sharma says to the pharmacist: "WE'D LIKE TO NOMINATE YOUR STORE AS OUR BRIDAL GIFT SHOP."  

 

Do You believe in Late Marraige?

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Comments

Dottie1 profile image

Dottie1 3 years ago

I believe in late marriage and I LOVED your joke. Thanks for the laugh.

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Trsmd Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks Dottie1 for beleiveing Late Marriage as success one..

ibraahin 3 years ago

ha ha ha ha h h ha h ha h ha ah h ah aha ha ha ha ha

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Trsmd Hub Author 3 years ago

hello ibraahin.. what happened to you?

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countrywomen 3 years ago

Murali- You haven't mentioned the timeframe when you consider late marriage (i.,e 21 and 18 are official)also for each gender in your poll. Also can add a third option MAYBE as everybody maynot exactly feel one way or the other. As I personally believe more than the right time it is the right person that one needs to be married to.

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Trsmd Hub Author 3 years ago

thanks countrywomen for your suggestion, I will update the pOll accordingly..

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Darknlovely3436 Level 6 Commenter 2 years ago

Yes l do,

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Trsmd Hub Author 2 years ago

i don't know Darknlvoely3436 to congratulate for your late marriage or not?

khair un nisa 2 years ago

I believe that you have a right to enjoy and marry to her /his selected person in any age

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Trsmd Hub Author 2 years ago

yes.. khair un nisa.. that's your right..

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Jenny Brown 23 months ago

Getting married in ones thirties or forties can be a good idea as one has more life experience and hopefully can filter out the deadbeats and not be so taken in by a flashing smile and empty charm. I also think that folk get fussier as they get older and are likely to kiss fewer toads in their quest for the handsome prince or beautiful princess.

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Trsmd Hub Author 23 months ago

thanks jenny Brown for your comments in this page..

vepached64 21 months ago

Hello, in life every important incident has to happen at the right time. Marriage is not an exception. In several cultures, still sex is only after marriage, which is also a healthy practice. Unless your philosophy is to have sex from puberty, but not marriage, it is different. For a society, having a philosophy is not good, though there may be several examples, of extra affairs after or before marriage. But, if you have the good practice of maintaining virginity till marriage, then it is better not to delay too much. Having a good job though is necessary.

Another very important point is: Marriage and sex are your wish. But, if you want to have kids, don't delay. Having children very late leads to many complications and genetic abnormalities to infants. YOU DON'T HAVE A RIGHT TO DO IT. So, if you have any idea of having kids, better not to delay much.

http://www.allscienceonline.com/child_health.html

Venkata

olami josh 21 months ago

sooo good n lovely,fallin in love with the idea!!!!!

ronhel 16 months ago

its awesome you know !

SUBHAS 16 months ago

This is very interesting? I had never known that there's a lot of benefits to getting married at a later age. After reading this, I think that its sort of a blessing from the heaven above. Another positive way, is to find the right marriage partner that matches up with you astrology sign, and that should even improve the marriage a little bit more. I'm very impressed with this website, and it had given me strength, positive outlook, and most importantly "hope." Whoever you are, owner of this website, "THANK YOU SO MUCH." I was thinking that I was lonely and no one would understand. My life was moving ahead of me at a high rate of speed. This website had given me hope. For those of you that aren't never married, please read this website very thoroughly and carefully. This website will give you hope. May God Bless all the single and lonely people. May God Bless the married couple as well, and let their relationship grow, be strong and most importantly look back and cherish their memories. God Bless you all.

Subhas

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shawbrooke 15 months ago

I think that people should get married when they want. When societal authorities promote one specific life plan, things get mucked up for individuals and for society.

Several generations of my spouse's family married late their considerable issues relate to their late marriages. That suitable person maybe there at the right time, but love is often lacking. There are a higher than usual number of single relatives who did not find anyone in the small pool of people unmarried when they were finally "ready". People might - or might not - have more money, but energy for child rearing is lacking. Some people send a lot of money on in vitrio and still have fewer children than they wanted.

People are in a sandwich situation where at the height of their careers, people are struggling to care for their teenage kids and parents in their 80's. Adjustments to societal changes are patchy, resulting in huge impacts affecting future generations. Having more experience isn't helpful when that suitable person brings hang ups relating to previous unhappy experiences.

Maybe the middle is least likely to be troublesome. Marry in the mid twenties, before the person that you love moves on, after you've got the basic education and earning capacity, when you still have the energy to raise kids and do not need to waste resources on in vitrio.

Let's lay off the expectations and let people marry when they find someone they can love and who is ready to face life.

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Trsmd Hub Author 15 months ago

@ shawbrooke - you have provided valuable info about late marriage..

zulfiqar 12 months ago

it will be good to get married about 25-30 but if u couldn't there is no limit

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anglnwu Level 7 Commenter 5 months ago

Cute joke and as you pointed out love and understanding is the basis for marriage, not age. Thanks for sharing.

timi 2 months ago

when they thoght to marriage they marry.

Ogheneluye Emmanuel 2 months ago

Age is nt d basis for marriaging.buy hw mature is ur mind.late marriage is good 2 some extent

Okewu blessing 8 weeks ago

Late marriage is not good.early marriage is preferable,it help to give birth to children at ease

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